1. identify your personal identity, who am l 

your back group has nothing to do with you.

refuse to be  an odenary person. 

- what are things if you do  makes you happy, and adds your personality, ability or strength 

2. have vision

the only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision

-vision is the function of the heart 

-see a bigger future beyond your current situation 

-have clear direction 

-have special goals

-belive in your future 

3. personal development 

some people die at 25 and aren't buried until 75

self development will help you to

-build confidence 

-change yourself concert

-unlearning, learning and relearning 

-gain muscles

- sharpen your talent 

4. start small

why should I start small

-learning curve

-you attract right people 

-learn management skill

-learn emotional stability 

5. Taking personal responsibility 

-take 100% full responsibility of your self change don't blame any one 

- speak positive about your life

-never justify your failure